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How to Actually Show Up for Someone After a Miscarriage
I had a miscarriage in 2020, and since then I've watched almost every woman I love walk through that same door. Most people mean well and still get it wrong, not from cruelty, just no training. Here's what actually showing up looks like, and why the one-text-then-silence approach fails her every time.
Sep 27


The Portland Freeze, and How I'm Thawing It Out Anyway
Portland is warm on the surface and nothing underneath, and it took me six months of unanswered "we should hang out" texts to figure out why. Here's what I've learned about breaking through the niceness and building something real.
Sep 6


Postpartum Psychosis and Why We Have to Say It.
A mother's brain can break. Lindsay Clancy's case is forcing a question we've been avoiding: are we prepared for postpartum psychosis, or are we still pretending it doesn't exist?
Sep 3


I Thrifted My Son's 2026-2027 Wardrobe at the Goodwill Outlet Bins...
I'm a full-time single mom outfitting a five-year-old who outgrows clothes every six weeks. Here's why digging through the Goodwill Outlet bins became my whole strategy for his school wardrobe, and why it isn't a last resort. It's just doing the math.
Aug 21


Portland Summer Heat Amnesia
Every June I promise myself this year will be different — I'll get a window unit, prepare for the heat. By July, my house is a convection oven, my kid is feral, and I'm googling AC at midnight again. This is willful, deliberate, stupid amnesia, and I do it every single year.
Jul 22


The Sprinkler Is Childcare: Real Summer Childcare Costs
Summer camp costs thousands per kid. I have a sprinkler. Here's why that's not failure, it's the most honest childcare plan I've got.
Jul 22


The Day You Watched Me Become More
A letter to her son about earning a University of Alabama degree while working full-time and raising him alone. A reflection on resilience, the road trip to graduation, and why the diploma was never just hers, it belonged to both of them.
Jul 9


What Happens When No One Comes to Save You?
A single mother's reflection on building a life without a safety net, from budgeting at the kitchen table to realizing every piece of her life, career, and future exists because she built it herself. On why the absence of rescue became the source of her resilience.
Jun 17


Raising tiny humans while keeping ourselves sane is an art form. This is where we talk about the chaos, the wins, the 3 AM panic spirals, and why our kids think we're the coolest people alive even when we're covered in goldfish cracker dust.
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